From The Outside Looking In
From the outside looking in everyone’s life looks like a breeze and they are so very lucky. But instead of looking inside, go inside. It’s hard to get accepted into “cliques” if you will. You put your own limitations on YOU! It is hard to get into a clique where you feel wanted and feel your needs are met.
There are a lot of very wealthy moms in my area. They all smile and nod and give you a pleasantry. I always nodded and went about
Then there are the moms with the falling apart cars. The moms who you pray for because you’re afraid their “rust bucket” won’t get them home. What lovely people they are but they earn everyone’s pity. Their children frequently have colds and illnesses. Lots of times don’t have the winter clothing necessary for my area. They both work but can’t make ends meet. my business never stopping to chat. What would ME a poor sloppily dressed mom have in common with them and WHY on earth would they want to be my friend?
I grew up with the wealthy families. I now live in the later. I will tell you this all of the inferiority is in your HEAD! Money does that to you.
Here is some common ground with school in mid season that will help you find some common ground and maybe not worry they are thinking about MONEY.
- Both are cutting back. The economy has hit everyone.
- Both love their babies as much as the other.
- Both want the best for their families.
- Both need support and caring and sometimes a hug.
Everyone has the same basic needs do not be afraid to show our fellow moms a bit of support. When someone offers help it’s ok to accept it. If you don’t break the chain you will pass the attitude down to your children.
